Everybody in ministry knows
that if you are going to discuss an uncomfortable subject in America these
days, you better have a really catchy title to the message (or book), because
society doesn’t want to commit to anything that may lead to self examination,
or worse.....a commitment. Reading
something strong might help us build a Godly character. What you are about to read is a study of the
meaning of commitment and a look at our American culture. The thoughts you are
about to read are anything but “random”.
Materially we are the
richest, most blessed nation in the world.
In fact, by international standards the poorest of us, is rich. We don’t see it that way, yet it’s true. In the eyes of the rest of the
world we are self centered, arrogant and morally bankrupt. We are undisciplined and have no concept of
what it means to keep a commitment. Many
of us find ourselves overcommitted because we lack the training or ability to
say NO. It appears that we commit to
everything, or nothing at all. Don’t
believe me? Honestly answer this
question: when another believer asks you to pray or agree with them about
something do you do it? Do you
pray? Chances are (if you were being honest),
your answer is no. In an effort to make
my point, I want to take a look at some statistical data that may shock you:
- 1,000,000 Children are dragged through their
parents divorce each year
- 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second
and 74% of third marriages end in divorce
- Christian divorce rates stand at 27% in the US, as
compared to 21% for Atheists
- Children who grow up in single-parent homes are
less likely to marry, more likely to divorce, and more likely to have
children outside of wedlock
- Children of divorce are 62% more likely than
children of non-divorced parents to no longer identify with the faith of their
parents when they grow up
- The average Youth Pastor keeps the position 18
months
- 346,213 American sexual encounters resulted a pregnancy
that ended in abortion
- 70% of all men incarcerated in America
were raised in fatherless homes
- Most churches in America feel the need to
recruit volunteers with minimal commitment levels in order to be
successful.
I think the saddest
statistical point of all is that as most of you read the statistics listed
above they didn’t shock you. Many of you
thought, “yeah, that sounds about right”.
We come to the altar and
say, “Jesus, I commit my life to you”, but in reality we are more committed to
our favorite sports teams than we are to God. Let me make one more unpopular statement: too
many of us come to Jesus because we have been told that the Christian life is a
better, easier life. Truth be told, living the Christian life isn’t easy,
living the Christian life according to Godly principles is hard! Especially if you try to do it with your own
power.
Humanism has become so
deeply entrenched in the American way of life that it has a stranglehold on the
church. The word says, “I can do all
things through Christ who strengthens me”
(Philippians 4:13). Most of us
focus more on the “I can” than the “THROUGH CHRIST”. The Bible is pretty clear.....it states, “submit
yourself to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you” (James 4:7). Do you really expect the devil to flee from
you and your un-submitted life? Well, I
did. You read that right, I said “I
did”. I grew up a “word bird”, so I
expected to stand on any scripture in or out of context as long as it served MY
purpose and God would honor it. After
all “He holds His word even above His name”, right? Far too many believers can work God (and work
is the word), but if He reminds you that you are supposed to live a life
committed and submitted to Him you blow Him off, or worse, say “Get thee behind
me Satan”. After all, “There is no
condemnation to them that are in Christ Jesus”.
I know, I know, messages
like this are not the kind of messages that win friends, increase your partner
base, or bring in big offerings. Sorry,
I’m not an “itching ears” preacher. Just
a M.O.G. (Man of God) determined to grow in Him and take others with me,
whether it’s popular and pays the bills, or not. You see a couple of weeks ago a pastor friend
of mine in York, PA and I agreed to fast and pray together
for one day. During that day the Holy
Spirit began to deal with me on the subject of commitments. He lead me to read two large passages of
scripture that deal with being too independent and holding back from God,
specifically with our money. As I read Deuteronomy
8:1-20 and James 5:1-6 from the New Living Translation I
knew that if I would let him, God was about to teach me something (I could
print the two passages for you, but then you wouldn’t make a simple commitment
to get your bible out and read two passages of scripture). In fact, I am even going to resist sharing a synopsis
of the two passages, because you need to read and chew on them for yourself. If you do, I’d be surprised if you can still
attempt to do things in your own strength, or if you’ll ever hold back when God
prompts you to give to someone or situation.
I just want to encourage
you. Submit yourself to God, resist the devil and he WILL flee from you. Let’s all grow together in the concept of
what commitment really means. It’s time
we, as believers become known for keeping our commitments. |